The Divorce Journey

If you’re here, you’re likely standing in a difficult in-between place — not where you were, not yet where you’re going, and not where you want to be. As the founder of Go Divorce Clinic, believe me when I say I know where you are at right now. You can trust me for two very important reasons: I have personally been where you are today (ending a marriage) and I got through it; and for over 20 years I have directly assisted other couples to get to the other side of divorce.

Divorce has a way of touching every part of life at once: emotional, practical, financial, and deeply personal. Pushing all that through a confusing legal process can feel more than daunting, it can collapse your drive and hope. Even your sense of sound judgment can become compromised or feel paralyzed. You are not alone in that experience. I can tell you my own divorce was the hardest thing emotionally that I have ever gone through in my life. Even though my own divorce was amicable and uncontested, the process with the attorney mediator was cold, unclear and ominous. The last thing I needed then was a costly, confusing and overwhelming divorce process dragging things out and adding to the very real pain of a marriage ending. I set out to create a divorce process that was not fraught with added and unnecessary distress and complications. There is another way forward.

Though divorce is not just paperwork or legal steps, the court system is the boat you will need to journey through the sea of divorce on. But you don’t have to navigate it in the dark. With the right structure and support, divorce can become the final marital project — not a prolonged crisis. I am very confident that utilizing the GDC Portal process produces the healthiest and quickest way to process a divorce in the United States, bar none. I did not spend 20 years in the trenches learning clever ways to make more money in this industry. I evolved a saner, quicker and much less expensive way to do divorce. I also painstakingly learned in detail over the years what can bog down the process of divorce. The GDC Portal is the light at the end of the tunnel that can get you through the divorce process quickly, efficiently, and economically without the typical disorientation that has become the expected norm.

People who move through divorce the GDC way often discover something unexpected: They are able to get through it without losing themselves. They come out the other side steadier, lighter, and more grounded than they feared they might. They rebuild. They move forward. Life opens up again. The journey will require effort, honesty and care, but with the right structure and support using the GDC Portal, divorce can become what it is at heart, a life transition.

You can survive a divorce. Over 20 years of processing divorces in my community has led to quite a volume of people we have helped. On many occasions I see some of the individuals that we helped divorce at GDC around town. Most of the time I do not even recognize them. Having seen them at one of the lowest times in their lives and then seeing them again years later transformed into happy, healthy, vital individuals who are feeling alive, is an amazing thing to behold. They thank me for helping them through the dark night of divorce, saying that the GDC process helped them feel good about themselves during and after. That with GDC encouragement and tools, they could take the high road and respect themselves and their ex in the years following the divorce. For myself, making a living is great, but getting that kind of feedback is nourishing and priceless. I share this to let you know that this possibility is here for you right now, right at your fingertips. With the GDC DIY Portal, as many people that need this quality of service can have it.